Frequently Asked Questions

*Please Note: I am not a doctor, psychologist, lawyer, or expert of any kind. My work is equal parts art and care work. It’s experiential and offered as a holistic support outside of the medical/psychiatric industrial complex. I can’t diagnose, fix, cure, or save you. I can probably help you shift your relationship with yourself.

DEFINING
TERMS

The following terms and principles are the scaffolding of my offerings.


What is healing?

Healing is the ongoing act of befriending what’s been banished. It’s not a project. Not a promise. Not purity or perfection. Not a straight line or a final state. It’s the slow process of making space in yourself and life for all parts of yourself— however paradoxical. It’s not about getting better. It’s about becoming more whole, which often looks like unraveling, remembering, repenting, resting, returning.

You can be healing and sick. You can be healing a grieving. You can be healing and undone, healing and raging, healing and dying. You can never be “healed” because healing is not a state of arrival, but a home-coming that is happening all the time.

It’s not a destination, but a devotion.

What is trauma-informed care?

Trauma-informed care often gets discussed as a protocol, but I see it as a posture. A humility. A willingness to see that harm often hides in the very places meant for help. It means honoring the nervous system as wise. It means orienting to safety not through control, but through choice. It means asking not “What’s wrong with you?” but “What did you have to survive?” and “What is your body still holding?”

Trauma-informed care is not about avoiding triggers, but about honoring thresholds. About offering companionship, not correction. About protecting dignity before providing service.

It is not about being perfect.
It is about being willing to see, to feel, to stay.

Learn more about trauma and a trauma-informed approach here.


What does it mean to be culturally aware?

Culture is a broad term that refers to the social behavior, customs, and beliefs of a particular group or society, which develop over time. Culture lives in the marrow. In memory, lineage, loss, language… and silence.

To be culturally aware is to remember that every person carries a history, a people, a particular arrangement of belonging and exile. It means refusing the myth of neutrality. It means noticing where power lives in the room, and who had to shrink so it could stay there.

It means letting discomfort be a teacher. And knowing that awareness is not actually enough. “Cultural awareness,” in this work, is a practice of reorientation to right-relationship. A prayer for deeper seeing. An unlearning of supremacy in ourselves, in our systems, in our ways of care.


What is a doula/midwife?

“Doula” is a Greek word meaning servant, or helper. One who tends at the threshold, who does not flinch. “Midwife” comes from Old English and means a presence alongside, not above. When I use these words, I don’t refer to a professional title or credentialed role.
I mean something older than that. Something more ancestral than institutional.

I mean one who walks with. One who listens beneath. One who stays when the map dissolves. I am a companion for your pain and promise. For whatever is emerging… even when that’s descent, dissolution or death.

My work isn’t about managing outcomes. It’s about tending what is sacred in the unknown and blessing what arises (not determining what should).

The capacities I cultivate in this regard are:
– presence without agenda
– the willingness to accompany, not intervene
– the practice of equanimity in the face of grief, rage, or rupture
– the art of creating and guarding sacred space—within and without
– and the trust that something holy is always trying to be born, even in collapse

I do not use these words as titles to lay any claim. This is the lineage I serve and how I try to live.


What is parts work?

Parts Work is not a method so much as a way of listening more closely to the many voices within. It draws from multiple streams—Internal Family Systems, , Gestalt, Voice Dialogue, Jungian archetypes. But it is older than all of these. It is an act of remembering: that we are not one self, but many.

Inside each of us lives a constellation of characters: young ones and old ones, fierce ones and frightened ones, protectors and pleasers, rebels and resigned ones, sacred ones who hold the dream, and sorrowful ones who keep the wound.

These parts are not problems to be solved. They are not symptoms. They are the soul’s attempts at survival. Each carries a history. A burden. A brilliance.

When we are fused with a part—when its fear becomes our world—we suffer. We spin in indecision, shame, compulsion, rigidity. But when we can turn toward that part with compassion, when we can listen without rushing to fix, something softens. Something shifts. And space opens up for a different kind of wholeness.

Parts Work is not about control or integration as achievement. It is about relationship. Honoring each part’s truth, without making any part the whole story.

Some fruits of this practice, in time:

– A softening of inner war
– A greater capacity to stay present in complexity
– A growing tenderness for the younger parts within
– A deeper understanding of where your reactions come from
– A more spacious sense of self, rooted in choice not compulsion
– A restoration of coherence where there was only fragmentation

It’s a long pilgrimage home through every voice inside you that once believed it had to go alone.

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ABOUT
SARA

Who are you?

I’m who you come to when you need therapeutic experiences grounded in neurobiology, and steeped in beauty and archetypal wisdom. I’m a Leo Rising, Sagittarius Sun + Moon + Mercury (square a wicked Virgo stellium). Enneagram sp/sx 614. I like cats, good whiskey, and bad puns. And, at my end I just want to be someone my daughter is glad to come from.


Why these offerings/services?

My work was born out of a desire for soul, substance, and soft process. Everything I do and make is for real, raw humans living with messy bodies, minds and lives that require tending in these tough times.

I offer massage therapy, astrology insight and peer support because these are the sacred arts/practices that have continued to bolster and hold me. Each of these offerings are fundamentally about connecting to what’s going on inside, growing our capacity to trust and be with ourselves, and fortifying us to continue on.

My intention is always to be a soft but firm place to land, and help you nurture ways of being that feel good to you— so you can root down firmly into who you are and rise up from that place.

I regard each client session as a ceremony. We take time to ground into being and just see what arises in the mind/body/soul field. The pacing is dynamic. The tone is tender. The effects are deeply personal.

The space I hold for all offerings is fully confidential and judgement-free.


What is your experience and what credentials do you have?

My life’s work is rooted in ravenous study, my identities, where I’m from, my lived experiences, what I’ve done to survive, and how I’m unlearning all of these limiting ways of knowing myself all the time.

In the legacy of my ancestors (the Portuguese curandeiras and doers-of-what-needs-doing), my offerings also come to you by way of: 

  • 15(ish) years immersion in parts work, astrology, tarot and energetics

  • a devotion to experiential frameworks for guiding stages of inquiry

  • a calling to share the forms that may nourish us in crisis

I’m a Nationally Certified Massage Therapist. I hold additional certificates in Trauma-Informed Care, IFS-Informed Practice, Integrative + Holistic Health, Comfort Touch for the Elderly + Ill, and Chakra Therapeutics; and, I’m an alum of Lindsay Mack’s Wild Soul Tarot and Worts and Cunning Lunar Apothecary Herbal Medicine.

For a decade, I companioned women through survivorship and self-discovery/recovery with intimate and erotic portraiture. I’ve been a practicing astrologer in consultation with clients for the past 8 years. I operated a private cat haven serving feral/displaced cats and neonatal kittens from 2016-2021. I’m hospice-trained and also volunteered as a crisis counselor.

What else? I’m a jazz singer, custom cut/color natural hair wigs, and I make killer pumpkin chili. So spicy.


Additional Education:

Integrating Sensitive Practice in Manual Therapies
TIC Trauma Training for Healthcare Professionals
A Neuroscience-Based Approach to Chronic Pain
Palliative Care for Chronic Pain and End of Life
Radical Mental Health First Aid + Suicide Care
Facilitating Myofascial Stretching and Release
Inner Relationship Focusing For Chronic Pain
Evidence-Based Massage for Fibromyalgia
Somatic Therapies for Healing Trauma
End of Life and Grief Doula Training
Peer Support Group Facilitation
Crisis Counseling Techniques
Trauma-Informed Meditation
Tarot for Trauma Healing
Neuro-Affective Touch


Lineage of Knowledge & Praxis:

A few of the books and teachers informing my work are:

Care Work: Dreaming Disability Justice by Leah Lakshmi Piepzna-Samarasinha; The Body Keeps The Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk; Waking The Tiger: Healing Trauma by Peter A. Levine; Emergent Strategy by adrienne maree brown; My Grandmother's Hands: Racialized Trauma and the Pathway to Mending Our Hearts and Bodies by Resmaa Menakem; It Didn't Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn; Internal Family Systems Therapy by Richard C. Schwartz and Martha Sweezy; Somatic Internal Family Systems Therapy: Awareness, Breath, Resonance, Movement, and Touch in Practice by Susan McConnell; What We May Be: Techniques for Psychological and Spiritual Growth Through Psychosynthesis by Piero Ferrucci; The Soul of Psychosynthesis: The Seven Core Concepts by Kenneth Sørensen; The Polyvagal Theory in Therapy: Engaging the Rhythm of Regulation by Deb Dana; The Wild Edge of Sorrow by Francis Weller; Care of the Soul by Thomas Moore; Women Who Run With The Wolves by Clarissa Pinkola Estés; Eastern Body Western Mind by Anodea Judith; Die Wise: A Manifesto for Sanity and Soul by Stephen Jenkinson; The Development of The Personality; Seminars in Psychological Astrology by Liz Greene; The Inner Sky by Steven Forrest; Astrology and the Authentic Self by Demetra George; The Soul Speaks: The Therapeutic Potential of Astrology by Mark Jones; Hellenistic Astrology: The Study Of Fate and Fortune by Chris Brennan.

LOGISTICS

Where are you located?

I practice massage out of a beautiful, private space out of Push Massage Therapy in the heart of downtown Casper, Wyoming.

I offer astrology and peer support virtually (online) to English speakers worldwide.


What days/hours are you available?

My schedule varies with the seasons and my own natural rhythms. Generally, I offer massage sessions 5 days a week, from 9am - 12pm. I occasionally accommodate regular clients in the afternoon. You’ll see my massage availability when you click the link to schedule.

Other offerings, when available, are scheduled around my regular massage practice at a time that works best for us both.


Do you offer payment plans, sliding scale, or accept trades?

Due to limited capacity and resources, I do not accept trades; but, I do offer sliding scale rates for astrology and peer support.


How can I get in touch with you?

Through the booking links. You may follow me on Instagram and/or Facebook for updates. I do not direct message with clients.

MASSAGE THERAPY

Please Note: I DO NOT PROVIDE SEXUAL SERVICES. Sexual conversation or advances during a massage session will not be tolerated. If you breach this boundary, you will not be welcome to work with me again in any capacity.

What is trauma-informed massage?

It is tending. A practice of returning to the body… not to fix, but to inhabit more fully. Trauma-informed massage, as I offer it, is not a technique, but a way of being in relationship—with you, with your nervous system, with the sacred intelligence of your body. It’s built on slowness, consent, deep listening, and the belief that healing is not about making anything go away, but about making space for what is here.

Every session is co-created. There is no agenda. No one-size-fits-all protocol. Only the question: What do you need to experience today? We begin there.

Some days, that might mean stillness. Other days, deep pressure. Or long silence. Or tending only to your feet.

You choose the pace. You set the tone. I will follow your body’s lead.

You are welcome to ask for anything that helps you feel more safe, more at home:

– more communication, or less
– changes to pressure, speed, or rhythm
– shifts in where or how touch is offered
– adjustments to lighting, temperature, or music
– or the option to pause or stop at any time, for any reason

Your no is holy here.
Your boundaries are not obstacles. They’re portals to deeper trust.

This work does not replace therapy, and I do not offer psychological treatment. What I can offer is the honoring of what your body remembers. A place to soften. A moment of belonging. A ritual of reverence for the life that lives inside your skin.

And, if you are simply longing for a place to exhale…
to be met with care, not correction…
to be touched with consent, not control…
this is a space for that.

A quiet sanctuary for the parts of you still learning they are safe to exist.

For more information, you may listen to my talk on Trauma-Informed Massage Therapy.


**If you are walking through active crisis or acute trauma, I invite you to consider resourcing yourself through additional support. I can share a list of trauma-attuned mental health providers in the Casper area if you feel called to that. You are not alone.

Here are some additional local and national support resources.


What is your consent practice?

Here, consent is not just about saying “yes” or “no.” It is about listening. Honoring. Slowing down. It’s about creating conditions where your knowing can emerge and be welcomed without question.

Before we begin, I will ask what you’re carrying. What you need. What feels possible. I will ask if there are places your body is not ready to be touched today. I will ask about your preferences—pressure, pace, presence. And then, we follow the aliveness of the moment, making adjustments as we go.

I may ask if I can dim the lights. Or if a warm compress would feel supportive. I may describe a method I’d like to try and wait for your answer. I may offer a pause. A breath. A question. A silence.

I will orient your body to my touch gently, laying a hand with presence before beginning to work. If verbal cues are more helpful for you than physical ones, you are welcome to ask. Your sensory boundaries will be met with care.

Consent also includes me: my ability to hold limits with integrity, to decline what would stretch beyond the scope of this work. Mutuality matters. You don’t have to protect me from your needs, and I won’t burden you with mine. We will practice being human together.

If something doesn’t feel right, please tell me.
Too deep, too light, too fast, too much, please tell me.
If you change your mind mid-session, or realize something isn’t working, you are not "being difficult." You are being wise. And I will honor your wisdom.

This is not a place where you must endure. Not a place where you must perform politeness while betraying your body. You do not have to get it perfect. You only have to be open to discovering what you need in real time, and be honest about it.

What kind of massage do you offer?

I offer massage as ritual, as an act of reverence, a way of midwifing your return to body, to presence, to the part of you that remembers you belong to yourself.

My touch is never casual. Before I place hands, I listen. To your breath. To your intention. To the truth beneath your words. To the quiet language of your body.

Each session is shaped by need, not by protocol; and yet, it always begins with a threshold. An arrival. A moment of opening. There is rhythm and sequence, and following what’s alive. I move symbolically and intuitively… not just to address pain, but to speak to the soul of what hurts.

This is not treatment work. It’s a re-membering of what has been scattered, severed, silenced. We’re bringing the body back together.

My strokes are circular, spiraling, dance-like, because it’s the oldest pattern of return. The way water moves around stone. The way air rustles through trees. The was fire undulates. The way the body says yes to integration.

The qualities I offer:
grounded presence, slow strength, rhythmic grace.

Deep tissue, clinical and sports massage aren’t on the menu. The forms I practice are Swedish, Manual Lymphatic Drainage (MLD), Hot Stone, and Prenatal Massage. All offered not as “modalities,” but as languages of touch.

You will be held in a sensory cocoon. Warm towels, weighted blankets, softened light or deepest dark, aroma chosen with care, sound selected to soothe or stir, each element curated as altar.

We create sanctuary here. Not escape, but a place where you can meet yourself more fully, and be met with presence in return.

This is massage as ritual.
And you are the sacred one at its center.


Do I have to be completely undressed?

Absolutely not. You never have to undress beyond what feels right in your body.

Many people choose to remove clothing to allow for oil-based massage, which helps prevent skin drag and allows for certain styles of touch; but your comfort and sense of safety is more important than any technique I might use.

Massage can be received through light clothing. Touch can be nourishing with or without skin contact. There are always options. There is no “right” amount of undressing. Only what allows you to soften, breathe, and feel most at home in yourself.

If you wear a bra and choose to keep it on, I’ll check in. Sometimes straps get in the way. If that’s the case, I’ll gently ask whether you’d like to unhook it, or if you’d prefer I work under or around it. We will do what feels best to you, together.

Throughout your session, you will be draped with care— sheet and blanket covering your body in a way that feels secure but not confining. Only the area I’m tending to will be uncovered at any time. If you discover that you prefer to remain covered in certain places, or if you like the sensation of touch through the sheet or blanket, just let me know. If you want the draping adjusted (away from your collarbone, off your neck, gathered looser or more snug) just say the word. Or, move it yourself.

Your private areas will never be exposed. That boundary is sacred and absolute.

If you prefer a fully clothed session, you are welcome to request one. You might come in comfortable layers and ask that I work only on your head, neck, shoulders, hands, or feet. This is your session. Your body. Your experience.

Nothing here will be forced or assumed. You get to lead. And I will follow with reverence.


What parts of my body will be massaged?

A typical full-body session might include care for your: back, arms, hips and glutes, legs, feet, hands, shoulders, neck, head, and face.

But there is no such thing as “typical” when it comes to your body. *You are the one who gets to decide what areas are included in your session, and what are not. If there are places you’d rather I avoid, you can let me know at any point, before or during the massage. You never need to justify or explain. Your “no” is enough. Always.

This is not just a massage—it’s a practice of connecting to and honoring your choice.

**Please note: I do not touch genitals, breast tissue, or the inside of the mouth. These boundaries are non-negotiable and rooted in ethical, legal, and trauma-informed standards of practice.


What should I do during the massage?

Nothing is required of you here. You are allowed to just be. You can breathe however your body breathes. You can soften into the table, or not. You can stay quiet, or speak. You can move, shift, adjust. You can rest, feel, dissociate, return.

If you’re able, allow yourself to be supported by the table, by the room, by my hands. Let the weight of your limbs be held. Let your breath find its own way, deepening when it’s ready.

Throughout the session, I may gently guide your body: lifting a foot, turning a hand, tilting your head. You don’t have to anticipate or perform. If something needs to change, say so. We will adjust.


What if I cry during the massage?

Tears are welcome here.

Sometimes, when tension softens or old stories surface, the body weeps, sighs, shivers, twitches, laughs. Sometimes nothing happens at all… and that, too, is holy.

If you cry, I may quietly check in to be sure you feel safe, and offer you a tissue. I will not pry. I will not interpret. I will not coach or counsel. I will not try to fix it.

You are allowed to share or stay silent. You are allowed to feel, to not know why, to need nothing from me but presence.

I will be right here.


What if I’m feeling self-conscious about my body?

You are not alone in that. So many of us have been taught to mistrust or judge the very bodies we live in.

Please know: I work with real human bodies. Bodies that are soft and scarred, aged and aching, asymmetrical, bloated, bony, bruised, tattooed, lopsided, hairy, stretch-marked, genderqueer, postpartum, ill, healing. All sacred.

I do not see problems to be critique and correct. I see people to be honored.

That said: I do appreciate if you’re able to bathe beforehand and wear deodorant—basic care for both of us in close proximity.

Your body does not need to earn the right to be tended to. You are already worthy of care.


What if I dissociate, become overstimulated, or feel done with being touched?

This, too, is part of the territory. The body remembers. The nervous system protects. Sometimes, it’s all just too much.

If something shifts in you… if you drift, shut down, go numb, feel overwhelmed, or sense your body pulling back from contact, please know it’s okay.

If you can, let me know what you’re feeling. You might say something like:

  • “Pause.”

  • “That’s too much.”

  • “I need a break.”

  • “Can you just hold my feet?”

  • “Can we stop?”

You don’t need to explain. You don’t need to make sense of it. You don’t even need words. If speaking feels out of reach, you can make a sound, a gesture, a shift in body. I will usually notice and respond by slowing down and checking in.

I can move to a different part of the body. I can step back. I can offer stillness and anchoring.

You are allowed to feel done. You are allowed to change your mind. You are allowed to need something different partway through.
This is not an interruption. This is wisdom. This is the work.


I’ve never had a massage and don’t know if I’ll like it, but I want to try. What is your approach?

You don’t need to know how to receive touch. You only need to be curious and willing to begin.

We will start from exactly where you are, together.

I will follow your cues and only touch the areas you are open to receiving contact. You can leave on or remove whatever clothing helps you feel most safe and comfortable. We will build trust not in theory, but in practice… moment by moment, breath by breath.

If anything feels uncomfortable, overstimulating, or even just ticklish, let me know. We can adjust pressure, pace, and technique. I can use broader contact, slow my movements, invite your breath to anchor you. You can even place your hand on my arm as I work, to help your body feel more in control. We can experiment. We can listen. We can follow what feels good and stop when it doesn’t.


How will I feel after my massage?

Every body is different. Some people feel immediately relaxed, softened, slowed. Others feel alert and bright, newly alive. Some feel sleepy and tender. Others feel clear and strong.

You might notice emotions rise and fall.
You might notice relief from tension or pain.
You might just notice your breath for the first time in awhile.

Massage can bring you into deeper presence with yourself. And that presence can linger—sometimes for hours, sometimes for days.


How often should I come for a massage?

One session can offer a breath of relief. A sigh. A loosening. But something shifts when touch becomes a rhythm, not a rarity.

When you come regularly, your body learns it is safe to soften. Your nervous system learns the way back home. In the hands of a steady, attuned presence, healing takes root. Not through fixing, but through relating. And not just to me, but to your own flesh, your own breath, your own becoming.

So, come as you feel called.


Are there any medical conditions that would make massage or bodywork inadvisable?

Yes. There are times when massage may not be safe or appropriate.

Before your first session, I’ll ask some general health questions. Please share any conditions you’re living with, any injuries past or present, and any medications you’re taking. All of this helps me care for you well.

If you’re under a doctor’s care, it’s wise to consult with them before booking bodywork. Some conditions require adaptation. Others are contraindicated altogether. Our work begins with honesty, clarity, and collaboration.


How can I book and pay for my service?

You can schedule your appointment by clicking here.

Payment is collected at the time of service through the front desk. Credit or debit card, cash, and Venmo are accepted.


Why do you need an intake form before the first session?

Your intake form is more than paperwork—it’s an opening.

It helps me learn about your history, your health, and your hopes for our time together. It helps me understand what your body has carried, and what it still might be holding. It helps us begin with informed consent: where care is not just given, but co-created.


Do you offer home visits? 

No. At this time, I do not offer massage outside the studio. My work is rooted in place… in a space crafted with intention. Here, the room itself becomes part of the ritual. Here, we are held.

ASTROLOGY
INSIGHT

Please Note: I do not predict the future. For the love of all gods, please do not make major life decisions based solely on information relayed to you during an astrology reading.

What is it you actually do in an astrology reading?

I analyze data and synthesize patterns using ancient and modern astrological techniques. I make storied connections. I intuit. I ask questions. I craft meaning.

I act as clear channel, and share my observations and insights with you to prompt further inquiry, stir your imagining, affirm your lived experience, usher in more clarity, help you trust your own deep knowing, and invite more freedom, agency, self-sovereignty, dignity, choice and power to your life.

I use the Tropical zodiac, the whole sign house system and traditional rulerships, weaving ancient astrology into modern psycho-spiritual frameworks.


Some topics we may explore:

How has life had its way with you?

What is your work to be and do in the world?

What are you tasked with making space for and letting go of?

How can you come as you are and let that nourish everything around you?

Who are your astrology readings for?

If you want a conversational audio recording (like your own personal podcast episode)… a soulful, considered analysis… accompanied by guided meditation, journaling prompts, tarot correspondences, and references to poetry, book passages, song lyrics and related personal anecdotes… you’ll likely vibe with what I’m offering.


Who are your astrology readings NOT for?

As a rule, anyone who wants a list of keywords and personality descriptions isn’t going to be well-suited for Insight.

I don’t care about your love match (AKA synastry and composite charts). I also don’t do agenda-focused readings around closed questions like, “When will I meet the love of my life?” and “When should I plan my wedding/business launch?”

Astrology is indeed a reliable timing tool, but/and I practice astrology for the here, now - not the later, maybe.


Why are your readings only offered as audio recordings?

A few reasons:

  1. I no longer offer live consultation because my focus has shifted to birthing my book into being.

  2. Synthesizing a chart and delivering my insights when I am most centered and in flow ensures my clients receive a gift of my spirit—something truly resonant.

  3. With an audio recording, my clients can choose when they’re in an ideal space (mind/heart/body) to get into such personal material. They can pause the recording to make notes, jot down questions, stop the recording and pick it up again later.

  4. The audio is theirs to keep forever, so they can circle back and engage with new insights again and again.

(For clients who are deaf or hard-of-hearing: please let me know when booking and I will provide a written transcript in lieu of an audio recording.)


What do you need from me before the reading?

Please provide your accurate birth data in advance. This includes your full birth date, your exact time of birth. as well as your city and state/province of birth. An exact time and location (city and state/province) are needed for the accurate casting of your astrological chart. (i.e. December 17, 1979 9:18 p.m. Hanford, California).

PRESENCE—
PEER SUPPORT

Disclaimer: This offering is peer-to-peer. THIS IS NOT THERAPY. It’s not a substitute for professional advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Please consult a qualified health provider with concerns about your physical and/or mental health.

What is peer support?

Peer support is a collaborative conversation and form of social/emotional support between people with similar identities and lived experience. It’s a sacred, non-clinical container. It’s care—attuned and adaptive. Rooted in trust and mutual humanity. It’s not about preventing or curing, but working with. It moves away from hierarchies and “fixing.”

Our time together is shaped by what matters to you and what’s moving through you. You set the pace. You name the need.  I’ll bring presence, perspective, and a whole toolkit of integrative, trauma-informed support.

We’ll wonder together. Rage together. Grieve together. Breathe together.
Speak the unspeakable, sit in silence.
What do you need?

Who is Presence for?

Presence offerings are peer support—not therapy or counseling. This offering is not recommended for people in acute distress or crisis.

This offering can be especially supportive for people in a threshold time or really going through the shit. The lost and lonely, weary and wary, tired and gutted and grieving. The f*-ups, black sheep, misfits, queers, mad, sick, and dying… stuck in that eerie space between “not anymore” and “not yet”… hurting and holding on, hellbent on making meaning.

• People who’ve outgrown pathologizing systems but still long to be witnessed
• People in grief, rupture, or transition—post-diagnosis, post-breakup, post-collapse
• Healing professionals, caregivers, and facilitators who hold for others and want to be held for once
• Neurodivergent, disabled, queer, and chronically ill folks seeking safer spaces to unravel and re-member
• Anyone on the edge of something—identity shifts, spiritual awakenings, coming outs, thresholds of loss or change

Whether you’re feeling stuck in your life, your health, your relationships, your career… struggling with chronic health issues… recovering from complex/childhood trauma… grieving a loss… or something else entirely…

If it feels like a “yes” to you, it’s probably for you.


How does it work?

Take some deep belly breaths. Plant your feet. Locate your center. Fill out the “Presence Request” form: Trust whatever arises in you and share what’s true for you right now—no pretense, no performing goodness, no prettiness or pleasantness required. Speak from the ache inside, wherever that is. I’m here for it.

Once I receive your submission, I will light a candle and create ritual space. I read/listen whole-heartedly to what you’ve shared without judgement or agenda. I meditate and then respond in a personal voice note.

What I offer: total discretion, ritual space, unconditional regard, uncomfortable observations, profound questions, abundant swearing

What I don’t offer: expectations, solutions, coaching, cheer-leading, mothering, sex stuff, psychotherapy, advice of any kind